Since it appears the introduction of a Gay Forum is imminent, perhaps some guidance on using the three-letter "f" word would be useful to those both in and out of the community.

Merriam-Webster's 2001 edition notes that the word is "usually disparaging."

FlyerTalk rules say "Any posts containing communications that are knowingly false and/or defamatory, inaccurate, obscene, profane, threatening, harassing, offensive, vulgar, abusive, hateful or bashing -- especially those aimed at sexual orientation, gender, race, color, religious views, national origin, or disability--will not be tolerated"

• Is this a word that is acceptable only if "f" people use it with or about other "f" people (like the "n" word)? If so, how does this affect the non-"f" people who will be welcome to participate in the forum?

• Is it perhaps acceptable to use it as an adjective but not a noun?

• Is the six-letter "f" word from which it comes equally acceptable?

Randy has consistently, admirably and successfully worked for togetherness in the FlyerTalk community. Swatting this linguistic mosquito will help foster comeraderie in the new forum as well as at FT gatherings.

Any comments from gays, straights, moderators, pc police, petersens, or etymologists?