A question, please. No, two. "Blessed are"
is a standard common to most of the major
religions, Christianity, Islam, Judiasm, Buddhism, Taoism, and more. Now the questions: who is blessed by re-opening this unpleasant episode? And who is cursed, that is, made unhappy and troubled?

Now the answers: No one and everyone.

Let it go. And in the spirit of the season, God bless one and all....And SHE does!