^^ It sounds like you are getting good advice from the experts, but I'd like to add my emphasis to the above statement. Start the process calmly and with just the basic required information. Don't volunteer any added information when asked questions. Just answer the questions. When testifying, lawyers sometimes advise clients to answer "Is the sun shining outside?" with strictly a "yes" or "no". No add-ons as to "rain is forecast", "maybe a little bit cloudy", "and the temperature is...", etc.. Nothing else. Then calmly and quietly wait for the next question.

"Never let them see you sweat."

If they request added information or back-up, by all means drag out all the added proof. Just don't start with it. Shakespeare's "The lady doth protest too much, methinks." says it best.

And while I'm at it, maybe dress quietly/conservatively/respectfully. Job interview/meeting girl friend's parents/house of worship/??. Every little bit helps.

Romelle