The only part of your note I take exception with is the part where you wrongly assume they took a meal from somebody
Many of us on these boards "wrongly assume" a lot of things. That's why I asked for thoughts.
The comment on personal servant comes from this idea that part of FC "perception" is that you and you alone are the focus of the FAs attention at all times.
Wow. I never insinuated I expect all attention be focused on me.
carrying crew meals back to the galley is somehow in poor taste
Agree to disagree