Some, of course, do not ever come to FT.
Some come to FT with only their eyes - and never post.
Yet, of the registered posters:
Some come only to share information & obtain feedback.
Some come with matches to start a fire.
Some come with gasoline to pour on the dying embers.
Some come with flameproof bunker gear!
While I personally come only to share information & obtain useful feedback, sadly, I also come with flameproof bunker gear!
Perhaps it's time to ask what you come to FT with?
Bring a solution rather than a problem!