These are such sad posts. These people who have upset you are truly without consequence in the grand scheme of things. I do hope that the rest of us know how to conduct ourselves and our mouths. Please give those of us who are newer round here a chance. I do know that some of the posts are extremely unpleasant, and some are I am sure, completely untrue. They are the ones that have the problem, not you. If there was one thing that I would love to ask people is that they engage their brains before posting, writing strident critisism of others people's views, and insisting on having the last word.