Of course it's selfish. Self-interest is a justifiable basis for action. Counsellor's point about affecting change and behaviors on these boards seems to be lost on you, EPS. The continued integrity of Flyertalker is important to Counsellor, as it is to me and probably you. How is trying to maintain decorum and civility picking a fight? That's what you seem to be stating at the end of your first paragraph in the last post. No offense but I don't think it works, logically-speaking.