I'm with Rudi. There has been too much nastiness all around.
Ozstamps is likely not going to go away, nor would FT be better off if he did.
I propose that those who do not wish to accept ozstamps back into the fold, or whatever, fine, do not, but also do not haunt him. Let him go about his business, and you go about yours.
I have had negative experiences with FlyerTalkers. I believe I and they have been able to get past all of these. If not, that is life. People do not get along in real-life communities, so we don't all have to sing a virtual "Kum-Ba-Yah," either.
Each person should make his or her own decision as to whether they want to interact with ozstamps, and then follow their path. No one is going to get anyone to change their minds about him, so let's stop with this. This thread is long enough that people can decide for themselves what they want to do.
If not, then where will it end? Are we going to argue this until ozstamps comments, which he says he won't do? Are we going to start "stalking" him on other threads until he does? That will be ugly and likely unsuccessful. The only way for the situation to improve is to get past this. The only way for that to happen is for each of us to make a personal decision to either interact with ozstamps or not.