What an interesting project!

I would spend less time at Amanusa, not that it isn't a gorgeous resort. Amanusa is close to DPS, making this an ideal place to spend your first and/or last night.

Amanjiwo is in a great destination (Java), so give yourself enough time there.

#37 at Amankila is a great suite - it's one of the few Pool Suites that also provides an ocean view.

You might consider FS Sayan in place of Amandari. FS has a better room product, but for the sake of your all-Aman honeymoon, you might choose Amandari in any case.