I would also not be distressed by what the OP saw. However I may have lower expectations than most AA premium passengers/elites since I was flying UA, DL, AC, B6 and even US 6 months ago.
FAs providing service when needed and then quietly withdrawing to a private area and sleeping discreetly would be a pleasant surprise on some of these carriers.
My worst FA experience with AA was them continuing to serve an intoxicated passenger even after he spilled his drink on me more than once. My worst FA experience period was a (probably) intoxicated US FA spilling drinks on multiple passengers.