Commuter:

I'm actually not the big fan of lounge, I enjoy the time looking out the window at the runway, so lounge isn't the big issue. However, I really treasure the priority handling and the business class checkin, that's why I was insisting on this comping business.

I wouldn't try any of those "subtle" alternatives. I think they are for the selfish people... and I know for myself, that if their answer is "No", then no matter how much I cry, or threat, they won't listen. besides, this will expose my stupidity and cuase embarassment.

Maybe CX doesn't consider traveller like myself to be as much of a valued traveller; I guess one needs to fly FREQUENTLY on business/first class to be actually recognized. Because after all, we Economy class passengers are simply paying for the jet-fuel and their labor. Only upper class passengers will bring profit to the company.