Agreed Littlegirl, off topic, and I'm signing off now. We get it in the neck, because it's assumed we didn't secure the cabin properly. We know we did, but when the FSM does the walk around, if a seat belt is undone, window blind down, blanket on knee yada yada, the fact that we asked them to comply, they did, and as soon as we walked away deliberately undid whatever ... we get it in the neck. I used to work for BA in the past, and agree that they are more trusting if we said we did secure properly.
I think the crew get ground down though, as it happens constantly that people refuse or become abusive when we ask them to comply with instructions.
Anyway, def off topic now and I'll bid you good day before I get sent to the naughty corner

I'm about to hang up my cabin shoes for good, but crew will always have my utmost respect (and sympathy).
As someone who flies on the 747 every week, even as a passenger on the 747 I always watch the demo, even though I know the aircraft blindfolded.