1. dinner - made to order buffet/club/etc - dim sum/tapas/etc

2. cheapest exclusive-use (private chef) all-inclusive (that is still quality)
obviously very short list, not sure about these, or others
- singita castleton ZA
- zarafa botswana (wilderness safaris)
- pretty beach house AU
im looking at these as much better than accommodations which have private chef included/optional
and assuming existing andbeyond and lebua for example arent worth comparing

re my goal - a "menu" that i can order small dishes / tastes from