Merry Flyer: UA first is worth the try in international first on the new 777. (Comfortwise the undisputed best is Singapore). And Air France in first has a real bar to offer (so for our "alcoholic-addicted ff" this could be a major factor in choosing your first-class-carrier).
some time ago (15 years?) the absolute luxury in first on Swissair was the ability to ask (one week ahead of your journey) for a special cabin-steward to be on your flight. (I used it twice, and made my adjutant from the swiss-military have to join me to my US-flights and at the destination we had a great time out). (Some of you may not know that doing military service, as a reserve officer, in Switzerland is, till you reach 55, mandatory every year for 3 weeks).