Originally Posted by
Dr. HFH
Oy, I don't even know where to begin. You've taken a completely wrong approach. In effort to save a fellow FTer from what I see as potentially a fair amount of embarrassment and wasted time, I'll comment in detail. I hope that you find it useful.
Fantastic advice. As
missydarlin says, why start out by looking for a fight? More often than not, a simple summary of 'x happened and I would appreciate y as compensation' will do the trick.