I again agree with you, and am glad that my kids did enjoy a free youth.
But it would take only ONE incident and their lives is changed forever. And so is the life of the parent. The incident that I mentioned was the parents of the child finally allowed him to meet them 2 blocks away for the first time. The child was 8 years old, got lost and asked for directions from this man who was a resident of the same community. I am not going to say anymore what happened to this child, but it isn't nice...It only takes ONE incidence to change a family's life. Are you willing to risk it?