Just a couple of suggestions:
-We just returned last week from two weeks in East Africa and stayed at all the &beyond properties in Tanzania (including Zanzibar) and Kenya. This was an extra-ordinary and life changing trip. The whole experience was unreal. Yes, it was luxury (maybe not as luxe as amans) but that's not the reason for its strong effects
-Amanjiwo in central Java - being next to Borobudur and interacting with such great people that work and live around the hotel touched my soul deeply.