As far as the flushing tiolet goes, quite frankly, I forgot. As I see it, their really is no need to flush a tiolet on an airplane. I don't know if you've gone in an airline tiolet before but it all sort of goes down the hole without flushing. And I forgot to flush it. A friendly reminder would have been nice. But when the request is given in a rude tone, that is not ok.