<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Originally posted by jongar:
Travelling is a competitive sport - no one told you 
I side with you on this one, if niceness doesnt work, bully - its the only way sometimes. ( American foreign policy runs along simular lines)</font>
Sorry, that's the wrong conclusion. If niceness doesn't work, there's no legitimate reaction to "punish" a third, innocent person.