I'll be with my wife only. My 2 year old will be with the in-laws. We also just found out that my wife is pregnant so we may be skipping Napa since she's the wine fan and I'm the beer lover. Hot sure that I can cancel the Best Western in Napa though...
I understand that my itinerary is awful ambitious. I don't plan to get to everything on the list, we planned on doing more of a fly by our pants trip deciding which we want to do depending on available time.
I have updated the itinerary with days of the week.