hedoman, are you serious? this is a service related job, and tips/gifts are definitely appreciated by hosts. "high paying" is pretty relative, and is "more perks".

without a doubt, they work longer, but more flexible hours than a 40hr work week sitting in an office. i personally know a host, and she depends on tips/gifts from clients to supplement her income.

bottom line, if your host treats you well, you should probably treat them well too.