Every 20 minutes, takes a couple of hours. Can be expensive but if you book in advance and/or travel off peak not too bad.
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You would then need to get to LHR itself, from central London you can use a taxi (very expensive), Tube+Heathrow Express (expensive) or the Tube (slow but cheap).
It appears, according to a Google map, to be right next to Terminal 4.
You also have the option of flying - BA flies from Manchester to LHR.
Neil