Originally Posted by
Katja
And don't check them. Memorize the words "essential medical equipment" and "life-threatening" :-).
I don't think so. Is this domestic or international? If some of the other 4 people are adults, then you've got lots of help and you can assign different people to worry about/argue about different things in parallel.

Thank you for the tips!!
It is me (with my own set of physical disabilities), DH, 13 year old dd, 10 year old dd, 6 year old dd and said 4 year old ds. The girls are a bit of a help, they are good at taking care of each other and my son while I argue if need be. DH is the shy type who will hold bags and run errands, but getting what we need is on my shoulders.
Stress and physical exertion make me sick, literally, so I would rather just avoid trouble if we can.