Sounds like you may be substantially happier staying at an off-Strip property. There really are still bargains, especially catering to locals (see, for example, cheapovegas.com)

JW Marriott was mentioned, and that may gain some wife approval, because it is nice and relatively serene. But you can get closer to the action by going to places like Orleans or even downtown. That way, you can do the standard tour of the big properties, have a few pricey drinks/meals, but don't lock yourself in to a spot with resort-level prices for everything.

And if you hate crowds, get in on a Sunday or at least midweek so you have some breathing room.


(As for casinos, if you want a fighting chance you could try your hand at some poker.)