Originally Posted by
Christopher
So, it is perfectly usual to say to the shop assistant "Bonjour, monsieur" or "Bonjour, madame", similarly "Merci, monsieur", "Au revoir, madame", and so on.
To this point, because it is customary in France to greet the shopkeeper upon entering a shop (and vice-versa), the mistake many Americans make is to ignore the shopkeeper upon entering - since in many larger US cities the custom is "hope you don't mind if I just look, I'll ask you if I have any questions" which exceeds many Americans' French skills.
However, just ignoring the shopkeeper sets a rude tone which may well get returned, and some people come back saying "gee the French were so rude to us." Well . . . not exactly . . . but you can see how these things happen. So a few words can, in fact, go a long way.