Originally Posted by
pinworm
I think the best method is anti-anxiety medication. Short acting benzodiazeipines have a duration tailored to most domestic flight lengths. It reduces nervousness and may allow them to sleep. It does not involve esoteric methodologies about visualization or mantras, it does not provide logical--yet--completely--ignored statistics. They are simple to get and simple to use, just don't take them with alcohol.
Flying, with a few FT'er exceptions, is not something many have to do to often, so is not worth therapy. If you end up being a weekly FF'er, the fear will get less on it's own until flying is like getting on a city bus.
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I don't think that there is anything you can say to someone who has a fear of flying that is going to make any difference. Statistics and such are meaningless to someone who has this particular fear.
I think that there is a place for anti-anxiety meds and this is one of those times where I would probably advise it. (I am NOT a doctor, btw, just someone who has an opinion

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