Will soon be making 3 long haul trips in C with a child weighing 11kgs

Given how tight and snug the tables usually are, how does the meal service question play out? (two of the flights are with TG, their bassinets have a 10kg limit)

Very curious to know how other parents managed and find out what they felt was expected of them.

Am still breastfeeding so have a large appetite, would prefer not to forego meals.. or drinks.