I want to fly to my Godson's wedding tomorrow(Fri) for a Sat. ceremony.
IF I am allowed to go thru magnetometer without a patdown I'll be ok but I
cannot bring myself to go thru the Xray machine. And I will not allow another MAN to feel me up. Call me a homophobe. In this case it may be accurate. I am getting more upset daily pondering my situation. I can either fly from SJC or SFO to MCI and would like the Board's opinion as to what is better. The flight is NOT costing me any money except incidentals like food and drink.
Two Questions:
1.Can I insist a Woman perform the feel up aka pat down if it comes to that? 2. If I feel I must refuse a grope by a man is it likely I'll go to jail, even briefly?

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