Originally Posted by
SunLover
Let me see - you are the
only person in Y who wants or will accept an upgrade??

And no one else on the bird wants to fly up front.

And you were the only elite on the flight that even
thought about the possibility of an operational upgrade...
Look at it from the gate agent’s perspective – they know already that
anyone would be happy to receive an Y to J upgrade: Platinum, Gold, Silver, Civilian, or Non-Rev. So by chatting it up with the airline personnel I send the same message (a presentable guy with Elite status) without having to asking, as they know an upgrade would make anyone's day.
But we are essentially saying the same basic thing i.e. making a personal connection can increase your chances.
SunLover
Of course I am not the only one. And I couldn't tell you how many others were thinking about it. But I was being proactive, and if often worked for me. Why be phoney and "chat it up"? Be direct, polite, and pleasant. Like I said, it worked for me a number of times. YMMV.