yes, thanks very much for posting. I was intrigued by what you said here:

"how the patdowns really weren't as bad as everyone was making them out to be and how everyone is overreacting,"

I thought everyone was used to them by now! that's what Janet keeps saying.

Looks like the truth is different. Did you convey your displeasure in any way, verbally, tone of voice, etc. Sounds like you must have, since she was being so defensive.

Folks are overreacting? yeah, it's just everyday that some stranger touches my genitals.