Yes this is precisely my point. Sorry if it was not clear. The guy basically admitted he did not fly F much - perhaps did not fly much at all hard to say I was trying to avoid him. I'm kind of shocked I would get jumped on in the forum for complaining about verbal and very close to physical harassment where there was concern for my safety. I think people try to read too much into things. Honestly this really bugs me because frankly I find that often in the first class section there are very few women and we do not always get treated that well especially if we are flying alone. The forum strikes me as very male and I often get confused for a male because of my forum name.