To the OP, here is the post you need. Print out this middle part:

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OMG, that sounds like a terrible story. I can't believe what happened to her. You need to tell her we all agree she was treated really badly.

She's really lucky to have a boyfriend who cares so much! I wish I had one like that.
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To clarify: I think the complaint is largely meritless for the reasons given by others already (balancing interests can't please everyone - need to make the best overall decision - lots of info we don't have access to), and I have no interest in any boyfriend at all, being a straight guy.

But you can tell her I'm a curvy brunette/blonde/redhead or whatever makes it best for you.