bummer. DYWAJT

"Molester, pervert, disgusting, an embarrassment, creep."
That's exactly what you are. Glad to see the general public is calling it like it is ^.

"when a woman refuses the scanner then comes to me and tells me that she feels like I am molesting her; that is beyond verbal abuse"
No, sorry that is not beyond "verbal abuse", rather what you are doing is sexual abuse .