I have sat here and thought about this a bit since this topic was posted.
My wife sees a male ob/gyn. I have no problem with this. She preferrs it, due to bad experiences she's had with the way she's been treated by female ob/gyn. Its part of his job. He has also learned, I hope, to detach himself from the erotic part of his job to do his job. Plus, if he did anything inapproriate, my wife would deck him, THEN tell me so I could do the same.
I don't own my wife. She is perfectly capable of taking care of herself. However, some schmuck in a blue shirt who thinks he's more than he is looking at a virtual nude picture her, and possibly deriving some twisted sense of arousal from it? Well, I have a problem with that. That doesn't mean I have a problem with people looking at my wife. Hell, if I see them do it, I smile like "yeah, she's with me, not with you, so there!" But there is just so much wrong with what the TSA is doing.
This sounded better in my head.