My thoughts are that some men need to get over the fact they don't own their wives, they don't control their wives and that most women are usually perfectly capable of looking after themselves.. it's not about men "allowing" things to happen to their wives or not

If some guy feels his wife is 'devalued' because some other man has seen her naked in a non-sexual way, then there is something seriously wrong with a guy who would feel like this and he needs to look at his own attitudes which seem to regard his wife as little more than chattel.