I also wonder how the TSO would react if, upon refusing the NoS, I was directed to be felt up (you can call it 'pat down' all you want) and I take off my shirt & pants. After all, if a monitor can see me completely naked without my having a valid concern, certainly the TSO performing the secondary should have no problem with me stripping down in public in the security line, right?
And what about kids? What if a child screams when they are being touched completely inappropriately in the airport? As a parent, I sure as heck wouldn't discipline any child who yelled that they were being touched in their private parts by a TSO. In fact, I would TELL my kids to yell as loud as they can if someone touches them inappropriately.