Originally Posted by
LHR/MEL/Europe FF
Ok - I have seen what you describe happen - I was on a flight recently with mom and pop in First and nanny + children in economy. Nanny came up with children during the flight and mom cuddled child for a while. So I guess CX must allow it or be used to it happening.
Whether or not it was an individual crew allowing it, or company policy i don't know.
however - the parents chose to sit at the rear of the First cabin and minimize disruption to the rest of the passengers. They sat in row 4, nanny handed children over at the doorway.
OP, from your comments I can see that you are considerate of your fellow passengers. If you must have the kids and nanny visit you, though, and if the FAs even allow it, the truly considerate course would be to do as the couple described here did--have your assigned seats be in the back of F. And the even more considerate course would be
to go back to Y and visit them. Again, while I'm sure you're considerate, what you consider your kids and the nanny quietly passing through, talking or playing in F might be seen by fellow passengers as their being distracting.