My elderly mother wants an iPad, so we purchased her one this morning at Target. Now I'm seeing that it's going to be very confusing for her at first.

I am looking for a screen-sharing application, so we can help her remotely. The App Store has several VNC apps, but they all are designed to let an iPad user control their Mac or PC.

Is there an app that lets you do the reverse -- control an iPad remotely using a Mac or PC?

Another wishful thinking question: Is there an app that changes the keyboard to have forward delete and cursor keys?

Thank you.