Originally Posted by hpn159

I will be flying JFK-MSP-LNK for business in a few days. Yesterday, I surprisingly learned that a very senior member of upper management (4 levels above me on the org. chart) decided to "join" me on this trip. We've never traveled together before. This person is a loyal *A member (as are most people in my firm), whereas I am one of the few dedicated Delta / ST fliers.

For this year, I am 100% on upgrades (both business and leisure). On leisure trips, without hesitation I always give the upgrade to my spouse. However, for this particular trip, I for some reason feel awkward about sitting up front, while a a very senior member of the firm sits in the back.

I am planning on inviting this person into SC on my behalf. However, I am unsure what to do regarding the upgrade on the JFK-MSP leg (although only 3.5 hours long). Should I:

1. Reject the upgrade and sit in coach (not necessarily next to this person, but hopefully an aisle seat).

2. Ask the GA to give the upgrade to this person, without telling them it was from me. Have the GA make up some story that DL appreciates their business.

3. Accept the upgrade, sit up front, while they sit in the back. It was this person's choice to fly with me, instead of UAL.

Considering my career, general business etiquette, and my desire to continue flying DL / ST and not *A, which of the above is the best choice? Is there any standard practice in these situations?