Hi- We are looking to take a 5 year anniversary trip. Needless to say I have a lot of expectations built up- I want it all for the low price ( as i am sure everyone else does). So I am hoping to get some pointers of where to go that has :
A.) A Beach.- But not so isolated that there isn't nightlife.

B.)Great Food-

C.)Nice Rooms- Hoping to find something that doesnt look to much like your everyday Large chain ( like Sandels or Beaches)

D.)Affordable- Hoping to find somewhere we can spend 7-10 nights, I like the idea of all inclusive but have yet to stay at one with good food ( but am still open to suggestions). I dont know if its crazy but want all of this for around 4,500 including air, food, drinks, excursions, ect.

I have found some places that look really nice- Las Ventanas, One and Only Palmilla, Jalouies Plantation.

I would like to go somewhere thats not to touristy? Like Cancun, or Jamaica- Maybe I just haven't been to the right spots on these island but I was hoping for something a little more unusal?

I know this is alot for a first forum, but my head feels like its gonna pop from looking on my own so any help is greatly appreciated.