That's where the flaw of logic is, if you try a lot of 1/10,000 events enough times, you will achieve one some time, this is true, however, for each individual event, your odds are still 1/10,000, and you have no control which event you will be successful. You may score that date with the beautiful blonde, but your odds of scoring one date with any beautiful blonde is much bigger than 1/10,000 since the odds has been aggregated, just like the 1/10,000 of dying from a plane crash during a 20-year periods of weekly flights is already an aggregated odds, though much bigger than the original odds, but still small enough to be a factor of cause.