As someone who almost always flys in FC, I too sometimed get annoyed at coach passengers using the FC lav. But at the same time, the drink cart is often blocking the isle thus preventing coach passengers from using the lav in the rear. It seems the only time the coach passengers are prohibited from going to the FC lavs is on international flights.
As for the guy who wanted the grapes, no way would I have given them to him. I would have gone back to coach and auctioned them off.
[This message has been edited by Neal (edited 08-11-2002).]