Originally Posted by
Scott6067
It has been my understand that on the outbound that the international flight doesn't have to be departing from the airport one is at
This is correct.
There is no such thing as outbound or inbound in the *G rules. Access is granted only based on departures, not on arrivals. For a *G to have access you must have a *A boarding pass for the same day and the travel must be "travelling in conjunction with a Star Alliance international flight." That means same-day itinerary by most interpretations.
So if the EWR-HNL-NRT is all on the same day then the EWR access is granted by having a CO BP and for being in conjunction with the HNL-NRT flight. On the return it is the same idea. Access is granted in LAX based on departing the local airport on a *A flight and because it is in conjunction with the NRT-LAX flight.
If there is a stopover, even just overnight, you'll lose the access at EWR or LAX.