While there's not much to comment on your Ylang Ylang Villa experience beside a simple statement that such a vacation for, say, a fortnight would be anyone's dream come true, I'd like to touch on Indonesian payable "visa on arrival". That you have to pay for it is nothing unheard-of. Egypt, for example, reaches into your pocket for USD 15 (euro 10) each time you enter the country. Their visa, once postage stamps size, now is half page. The desease spreads ;-)