Thanks for the fax and email contacts.... I will gear up for hassle mode tomorrow.
I'm still dumbstruck that these companies would sign on for a promotion and screw up like this, thus not only not creating the good will that one assumes was their goal, but creating plenty of ILL WILL.
Meanwhile, is there a phone number for "AOLAadvantage"? During my last go-round with cooking.com (and also on the aolaa website) they just send you to the regular AA people, who claim to know nothing about AOL-specific partners.