Karen2...
Why put the ap under spouses nose?
Hope you're not doing what I did for 47 years, that is doing everything for spouse and then trying to get her to handle the things she will have to after I pass on.
Please accept above in positive light it is offered.
BTW...we love T. Kruse Winery right up the road from you on the was to Monterey. Been going there for years even after daughter moved from your town. (Don't come on as a wine-snob in his tasting room or he won't tell you about his occasional "buy6-get6" deals.)
Chuck