Meh. If a girl can score upgrades based on her looks and personality, then so be it. Props to her. I'll just comfort myself knowing that my smile and personality gets me free cookies at Subway. From an AC management point of view, I can understand why they're concerned - all it takes is one mistake and the purser in question could land AC into a sexual harrassment lawsuit which can get very ugly all around. Plus, to a lesser degree, grumblings from the less attractive crowd could lead to a few extra postings here on FT complaining about it.