Wow. While I don't have any inate dislike of "straw hats," I don't understand why you have a problem with ffs boarding ahead of non-ffs. Does this cause non-ffs problems? I would say, "No."
Everyone has experiences, though, when people in the aisles, etc. etc. slow things down for them and others. No one likes this. It is especially in the airline's interests, though, to ensure that their loyal customers stay relatively happy and loyal.
I always hate the exit stampede at arrival(compounded by people retrieving carryons from mystery caches all over the plane). Would you prefer that everyone be subject to a similar (worse) "boarding stampede?"
Puhlease is right!