Styyle, I'm so happy all went well 4U! Merry Christmas!
If I had seen this thread earlier, I would have noted that "spouse/ domestic partner" (used to say "defacto") is one of the relationship options. So just move in together or at least make your & her addresses match on your 2 accounts--if U haven't already! It would have been easy to empty 1 of your accounts into the other if U haven't in the past year.
But why pray tell did U leave the Oz Summer to enjoy the New York winter?!