I'm a big fan of dim lit restaurants....not because I'm an ol' romantic but because I don't want anybody seeing me savaging a T Bone steak in the manner that I do! With this n mind I generally look for sites that I can search by ambiance (dim lights for me!). Two sites that stuck out most of all in our travels were www.restaurantsdublin.ie (Dublin, Ireland) and www.tastespace.com (New York). Now where did I leave that juicey TBone!